For years I have felt the pressure to fit in, follow the rules, be something else to impress somebody else, but what has this done in return?
I wore several masks.
Masks to fit our target audience and masks to not fully embrace who we truly are.
I share this because I am not alone, but I feel done with being conditioned to fit inside a box I was never designed to fit in.
For years we are told how we are supposed to act, what to say and how to dress to feel and be certain way, but in reality your soul was not designed for this.
When we are conditioned to feel like this, we remove our identity, our sensuality and even hide our emotions that were not valid in a certain environment. Hence, the masks.
For me this was using humor as a coping mechanism, keeping friendships that didn’t feel aligned, acting in vain, gossiping and not having boundaries with family because I didn’t even know what this meant for me.
Overtime, this all caught up with me. I felt it and I knew I had to move with this. There were so many signs from Universe such as toxic workplaces, friendships that were draining, binge drinking and just feeling disconnected with self. I was living with a blind fold on, not connecting with my intuition, ignoring the nudges and going along with my day because I did not know there are other ways.
With all these amazing signs from the Universe and not being able to knock them off as coincidences anymore, I took one aligned action step every time. Starting with 1:1 mentoring, studying Reiki and NLP, and then of course my mediumship opening up and connecting with my guides to help me on my journey.
I am also sharing this because I know many of us are still wearing masks because it’s easier than doing the inner-work and embracing our shadows. But just for today what if you just simply raise your awareness that you are ready for positive change. That you are willing to see things differently.
Journal and ask yourself today – thank you Universe, what is one small aligned action step I take today that is for my highest good. This is how I started, and how I started to incorporate spiritual practices into my day to keep it consistent and easy.
Taking the path to wholeness doesn’t mean one big push and you are there, it means taking little actionable steps daily to raise your energetic vibration and working towards your why. The path doesn’t need to be scary, but it does take strength and persistence to embrace change, take charge, and become the higher version of yourself that is already there.
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